I was thirty years old when memories woke and burned inside of me. A lancing. A slow bleed. The infection needed to ooze from my wounds. But how could I let my secrets out?
“One day you’re going to write a book about your life.” I heard this voice as I was driving alone in my car. I laughed. Even though I believed it had to be God who I was laughing at. Never in a million years! Nothing is coming out. Plus, I’m not a writer. How could someone who hardly went to school write a book?
The voice persisted. “You’re going to write a book.” I couldn’t quiet it. I couldn’t hide from it. I couldn’t run from it. Eventually the pressure inside of me was more than I could bear. I picked up a pen and put it to paper. Then I froze. I picked up the pen again. Only to sob uncontrollably. Ten years I tried to write. And tried to quit. I failed at both.
I needed help. But I didn’t know what kind of help I needed. Maybe therapy. Maybe a friend. Maybe another mountain to climb. I googled how to write a memoir. One website led to another and then I found writingwomanslives.com. I scoured the entire website. It felt as though this woman named Marilyn knew me and my struggle. A writing mentor? Is that what I need? But the thought of reaching out to another human for help made my stomach feel like I’d swallowed a handful of obsidian rocks. Yet trying to write alone wasn’t working. And not writing was worse. I finally gave in and decided to do the scariest thing I’d ever done. I made my first contact with Marilyn. What I didn’t know then was I had just turned the corner onto a new trail, stepped foot onto the path that would change my life forever.
Let me tell you about Marilyn now. She, I believe, is the wisest, most encouraging, biggest-hearted woman on the planet. Her compassion for my wounded heart—she’s held my shaking hand across the Web—and her gentle nudges have freed the locked up voice from inside of me. I’ve told Marilyn things I’ve never told anyone. She’s entirely trustworthy. She’s got a universe of love inside of her that is unconditional, unwavering, and unmatched. Marilyn is gifted far beyond most therapists in her knowledge and creativity of leading women towards healing and their true self. In addition to the valuable consciousness work she’s guided me through, I’ve also learned the craft of writing memoir. Marilyn’s feedback on my writing and her suggestions for craft readings and memoir readings continue to help me grow as a writer.
I’m writing my memoir now. It’s safe. My fear is falling off and my shame dissipating. My backpack, once filled with overwhelming pain, has lightened since working with Marilyn.
I believe that all women—the educated and the uneducated, the confident and the fearful, the happy and the hurting—can benefit from working with Marilyn. She will meet you where you are at and, like a gentle Sherpa, she will lead you on an expedition that I guarantee will change your life.
Fitness Instructor and Gymnastics Judge
Writing Women’s Lives: Acorns to Oak Trees
For almost two years now, Marilyn has guided me back through a thicket of narratives that have shaped who I am and envision becoming as a writer. Through her online mentoring workshops, consciousness exercises, reading and writing prompts, she has laid out courses of action for me to follow. In the first two weeks of my first course with Marilyn I was amazed by how much writing I did and by how much more comfortable I was becoming with my own narrative.
Excavate Your Truth/Free Your Voice and Craft Your Truth/Claim Your Voice cracked open the silencing that held my writing hostage. Marilyn enabled me to “see” the inner kernels of my own truths and to explore their many roots and contours. Working with Marilyn encourages me to liberate my essays and memoir-in-progress, and to follow those deeper truths with more consciousness and confidence. I work harder at my writing now because “our truths” require both excavating and crafting if they are to move beyond mere chronicling into inspired women’s writing.
Writing is more than assembling words coherently on a page. It’s more than a byline or a book signing. Writing is working on an inner self where the acorns lie waiting to mature into sprawling oak trees. Exploring those acorns of truth can be precarious journeys strewn with entanglements and rabbit holes that lead to silencing and dead ends. In such cases, women writers need an enlightened guide to show us the way back to our own inner truths.
Marilyn Bousquin truly is such a guide. Her dedication to guiding women writers to their own “heart truths” is the truth of her own journey. The acorns of my own writing truth now stands as a healthy sapling still in need of nurturing, yet ready still to yield many promising ideas and works to come. Thank you so very much, Marilyn, for sharing your spirit and your gifts.
With writerly gratitude,
Mother, Writer, Educator, Speaker
Before I took Excavate Your Truth/Free Your Voice, I was struggling to write a memoir. I’d studied writing as an undergraduate and earned an MA in fiction writing from Johns Hopkins, but I had set my creative writing aside for a 20-plus-year career in marketing communications in the high-tech world. Feeling like I had abandoned my writing dreams, I had pretty much given up on myself as a creative writer. Yet I still wanted to reconnect with the writer inside and reclaim my identity as a writer. I felt driven to write a memoir.
Marilyn’s class exceeded my expectations. Her focus on consciousness as well as craft was unique in comparison to other writing classes and workshops I have taken. She addressed women’s writings and the many ways we silence ourselves in telling our truth. She suggested readings, provided writing prompts, and created a safe space for us to dive deep and generate beautiful material from our personal experiences. I can’t believe how much I wrote and how much I learned about writing and about myself.
Having taught writing myself, I know what a tough job it is. I found Marilyn’s skill, insight, and generosity as a writing teacher to be awe-inspiring. She is truly the best writing teacher I have ever had. Her class got me back on track as a writer and helped me reclaim my voice and my identity as a writer. I fell in love with writing again, thanks to Marilyn.
When Excavate Your Truth ended, I started working with Marilyn in her one-on-one mentoring program. Her structured approach, warm encouragement, and insightful reading and comments make her the perfect guide on my memoir journey. She finds the story beneath the story and makes connections that help me gain clarity into my themes and subjects. Her ability to recommend the right reading at the right time to help me move forward is uncanny. It amazes me to say that in only a few months, I have made substantial progress toward a draft of a book-length memoir!
Marilyn also focuses on the process and practice of writing. She has taught me to coach myself on dealing with challenges, obstacles, fears, doubts, travel, illness, and all the hundreds of things that can get in the way of writing. I now have a regular writing practice that I schedule as a priority on my calendar. I have a warm-up ritual for each writing session, and a little celebration ritual when I finish an assignment or reach a milestone. Although I have encountered some painful emotions from the past, Marilyn has guided me through them so I can keep writing.
Off the page I am now more conscious and clear about my feelings and reactions in daily life. I have a new understanding and acceptance of my self, my family, and my past. I am more whole and happy as a result of reconnecting with my identity as a writer. My life has more meaning and purpose now that I have recovered my voice. I feel authentic pride when someone asks me what I do, and I can answer honestly, “I’m a writer.”
Writer, Mosaic Artist, Traveler
The online community changed that. A group of women offering supportive responses to each other’s truths in written form was very propelling to my writing. We learned so much about the treasured truths in each other’s lives, which created a respect for our voices.
The writing I did in this class was new to me. It took me to buried treasures within myself where I discovered generations of unspoken truths. Marilyn has a unique way of creating an atmosphere that’s safe for the truths of our lives, ourselves, and our voices. She found treasures in our excavations that we never knew were there. This encouraged the writer in me to keep excavating each week between classes.
One of Marilyn’s specialties that I relate to the most is her voice. Marilyn genuinely coaches each of us women to reach the truths of our lives in our writing without a hint of judgment or impatience or “that wasn’t good enough.” I was amazed at how freeing ten minutes of prompt writing was in unearthing truths.
I’ve learned that the more I excavate my truth, the clearer my voice is in my writing. I’ve learned to show up more often for my writing, to release a deluge of words waiting to be arranged into stories that inspire the world around me. How can I not show up to inspire!
I went on to take Marilyn’s Craft your Truth/Claim your Voice group mentoring program in 2016, which I absolutely adore and recommend without reservation. Through the dual-track approach of pairing craft and consciousness work, I am developing more curiosity about the evolving nature of my writing and I am holding more space for its many faces. The work we did in this program also helped me determine what I want out of my own writing going forward. For anyone who does consciousness work—whether on the page, in therapy, or in personal development—Marilyn’s course will take you deeper into the work you are doing. Through the writing I have done at Writing Women’s Lives, I have become more present to myself, my experience, my vision, my spiritual practice, and my life, and I hope you get to experience this, too.
Chen-Wen Huang, MEng, MS, FRM, LOACC
Urban Gardener, Holistic Cook, Certified Life Coach, Risk Manager, Trader & Investor
Just a quick note to say that the curriculum for Craft Your Truth/Claim Your Voice has had the smoothest rhythm to it; how you carry us along to the next important step seamlessly. I have high praise for the amount of work that you did to make this happen. It has been truly so rewarding and enriching. I own 25 books now on memoir writing from the best women writers out there. All because of you and your encouragement to find the clarity in our lives and the truth of our beingness by showing us the way.
Thank you, dear Teacher. I could not, simply not possible, be more pleased that I chose Craft Your Truth to get my ass in gear and learn how to make what sounds so easy in my mind turn into words on white paper. For the power of ink and the love of a great Teacher, I give thanks.
Working with Marilyn has enabled me to dive into the depths of my story, my life, and my purpose for writing. I have found structure, understand the arc of my story, and am now writing reflection and detail. Marilyn also helped me find the theme of my story, which has given me the confidence and aliveness to carry on. She has been a strong light in the darkness of the writing tunnel. She chops down the jungle in my mind and clears a path to my own enlightened story. She helps me to push through fear and shame, and she listens so carefully to me on our coaching calls that I feel seen and understood into my very spirit and soul.
Now I am much more connected to my writing and to my writing self. My writing is rich, layered, clear, focused, determined, embodied, courageous, and excited. I have learned so much more about the craft of writing memoir as well as the embodiment of my writing. I tell the truth of my experience and have a voice that speaks through me and for me as it strikes the universal truth in my story.
Marilyn is a midwife for women writers. She holds the energy and gently but powerfully helps you find that same gentle strength and power to tell your story. I keep exploring, learning, and writing. What excites me the most is that I keep learning about the craft of writing memoir and about myself and who I am.
I have worked with other coaches, editors, and teachers, but working one-on-one with Marilyn has been one of the most positive, intense, and meaningful experiences I have had with my writing in a long time. Marilyn combines the feminine soul/spirit with the craft of writing. She is wise beyond her years.
Relationship Expert, Creative Coach, Transpersonal Therapist
Artist, Writer, and Playwright
President and Founder of Give Her A Voice
During Excavate Your Truth I joined in ceremony each week with other women and together we wrote beneath the surface of silence and excavated our universal truths. Marilyn does a brilliant job of holding space for her students — each week she created sacred space in which it felt safe to spill the truths I’d left unsaid, to tell the stories that I’d held for so many years in the caverns of my heart.
The writing I did in Excavate Your Truth was unlike anything I had ever written — it was brave, vulnerable, and beautiful. It sang with a kind of breathless poetry I had only ever dared to dream I could bring to the page. I credit this change entirely to the safety and courage I felt in Marilyn’s hands. As I began to feel braver my writing grew braver too; Marilyn encouraged my best self to show up on the page.
After Excavate Your Truth I continued to dabble in short-form memoir until my work started to add up to something that felt like a book-length memoir. Overwhelmed at the prospect of such an undertaking, I reached out to Marilyn and became one of her One-on-One Mentoring clients.
My work with Marilyn as a one-on-one coaching client has been nothing short of remarkable. In just a few short weeks our work together has transformed my writing practice (a practice I had struggled for years to find meaningful time for). Since I began working with Marilyn my writing has shifted from feeling like an obligation I struggled to make space for, to a joyful, easy practice that is filling my life with light and abundance.
And that book-length memoir that I had felt so stymied and overwhelmed by? That memoir has been unfolding gracefully onto the page each week with a sense of purpose I find hard to believe. Having Marilyn at my side has been an invaluable part of this process, as it gives my story room to bloom on the page, knowing that Marilyn is there to provide the kind of wise guidance and big-picture thinking that will keep my memoir on track.
Working with Marilyn has been revolutionary. Before working with Marilyn I longed to write but never seemed able to find the time. Now my writing is an abundant and increasingly effortless presence in my life that brings me great joy, even as I am continually learning to grow my courage and to trust more fully in my voice. Best of all, learning to trust in my voice as a writer is allowing me to show up more courageously and authentically in every aspect of my life.
Racial Justice Coordinator, YWCA Central Virginia
Inspired by Marilyn’s skillful guidance, I have returned to my writing with new eyes and energy. Her written comments on my work and insightful questions for discussion during our biweekly coaching calls have allowed me to revise previous work and create new material with a sense of purpose and direction I didn’t have before. Because she has helped me identify what my story is (and isn’t), I now write with more freedom and confidence, trusting the process to lead me to the story’s deeper levels and truths. I am no longer afraid to write my truth and am experiencing the power and transformation that comes with it, not only in my writing, but also in other areas of my life.
I am awed by Marilyn’s commitment to me and my story. She comes to our biweekly phone calls fully prepared with items for discussion that often challenge me to think about my story or its elements in unexpected ways, invariably leading me to greater clarity and renewed inspiration. She also comes with a spirit of generosity, ready to give me and my work her all, intellectually, emotionally, and even spiritually, in the sense of nurturing the writer within me. Through the work that we are doing together, I have grown not only as a writer but also as a woman believing in the value of my words, my story, and thus myself. Working with Marilyn over the past five months has exceeded all expectations and is truly one of the best gifts I have ever given myself.
St. Mary’s City, MD
This class turned out to be life changing for me, and for my art. I heard about it last fall, when I was overwhelmed with work, responsibility, and stress. The last thing I needed was to add more responsibility into my life. And yet, I couldn’t stop thinking about this class. And so, I listened to that quiet inner voice that kept telling me this class was going to be a game changer. She said to listen to my heart and not my head. And so I did. And so it was that my tiny inner voice—the “me” that had been buried since childhood—found a safe place to come out and play, to voice her fears, to share her courage, and to take her rightful place in the world.
Marilyn created the nurturing, safe environment where all of us participants became reacquainted with the parts of ourselves that had been long-buried and were starving to be heard and nurtured and accepted. Nothing is the same for me and I believe that everyone in our class felt the power of this life-changing experience. While I probably will not be writing my memoir with words, I will be writing it with my photographs. My photography has evolved in ways I only could have dreamed of before, but since this class, the creative energy that has been unleashed has taken on a life of its own.
Thank you to Marilyn and all the “writing sisterhood” for being part of this transformative process. xoxo –Jeanne
I am so grateful that I registered for Craft Your Truth/Claim Your Voice, and that I snagged one of the 1:1 mentoring spots. I just sat down and read through your comments on my writing, and I’m completely awestruck by your feedback. I’m so touched by the thought and time you gave my 3 memoir pieces. I’m without words. Admittedly, teary.
The insights you share and the connections you make between all 3 pieces is phenomenal. As I read through your comments, I found myself saying, “Totally! Yes, that is totally connected!” Your comments are helping me to see the threads that weave through the different works. Thank you a million times over for seeing those connections, pointing them out to me, and offering suggestions for how I might “tease them out.”
Working one-on-one with you is helping me discover the truths in my writing and helping me grow so much as a writer. Your writing support and feedback has me beaming with joy and gratitude up here in Kodiak.
I am blessed to have you in my life as a mentor and amazing writing teacher. 🙂
I’m looking so forward to our next coaching call!
With Marilyn’s expert guidance and support, both my writing and my writing practices have been elevated to new levels I’ve never experienced. Her classes, instruction methods, and coaching guidance and feedback far surpassed my expectations. With clear guidelines and class structures, writing exercises and assignments, and powerful articles on craft, my writing has increased in volume, complexity, clarity and emotional “punch.” Marilyn’s gentle yet effective exercises, encouragement, and coaching insights have been instrumental in helping me through emotional blocks I never fully understood before and that kept my writing and my confidence from flourishing. Her unique and powerful focus on “consciousness” and its effects on my craft, my writing process, and my output blew me away. Both my confidence and output as a writer have soared under her guidance and instruction. I’ve worked with many writing instructors and coaches over the years and Marilyn is beyond the real deal—plus she’s incredibly authentic, warm, and generous with her time. One can’t ask for more in a teacher/mentor/coach. I can’t recommend working with her highly enough. You will be blessed.
Writer and Retreat Facilitator
Port Townsend, Washington
Ginny Taylor, MFA
Award winning essayist
Registrar Hiram College
In Excavate Your Truth/Free Your Voice, I wrote and shared things that, prior to this class, only my journal got the privilege of “knowing.” Marilyn teaches in a way that assists you in reaching deeper levels of consciousness and the experience was no less than transformative. I felt very comfortable to share things that usually only my journal gets the privilege of “knowing.” The guidelines of the class contributed to that comfort. We responded to each other’s “raw” writing by mentioning the possibilities we heard in the piece rather than critically picking it apart. For an insecure person, that only can bring you out of your shell. Sharing stories in front of the writing group contributed to my feeling more and more comfortable speaking in front of a group. In this circle of awesome women, we gained a sense of trust, compassion, love and sisterhood though we came from all different walks of life.
The class made such an impact on me that I wanted to give others the opportunity of having a greater understanding of self through writing. In my summer program for children, I instituted a writing class that was modeled after Marilyn’s. It was so beautiful to watch children become empowered through writing and sharing. I am still encouraging my students to use writing as a way to express themselves. Taking Marilyn’s class not only improved my writing, but also helped to create the next generation of awesome writers.
Writer, Teacher, Mother
Teacher, Writer, Mother, Grandmother
Marilyn’s class helped me to realize that it’s okay to let my writing be informed by who I am and how I respond to what I’ve experienced. I saw that any uncertainty I had around my writing wasn’t because of a lack of ideas, but that at some level I thought writing about my own experiences would seem self-centered or wallowing in the past. Marilyn opened my eyes to unspoken but powerful social taboos for how women express themselves. Her class was a safe and empowering place to plow through them. I’m now certain that I’m entitled to tell my stories, because they are my life. This is a big turnaround for me.
I’ve never had a teacher with Marilyn’s intuitive quality. She has the ability to home in on the real heart of the writing, even if the writer doesn’t yet see it herself. This was my experience, and I observed her doing the same with my classmates’ writing, always spot-on. I’ve signed up for the Craft class because I want to go more deeply in this new writing direction. I feel like I’m headed toward the kind of writing I’ve always wanted to do: something that helps me to flourish, and touches others.
Museum Registrar, Poet, Writer
A class with Marilyn is one that creates a beautiful safe space for writers to express themselves, bounce ideas off each other, and share experiences in a lovely and often intense way. It’s a class where writers not only find their voice but watch that voice resonate in ways previously not thought possible.
Marilyn helped me dive into my own persona, especially as a woman—an area I had previously shied away from—and, with often just one or two perceptive words, she steered me through a number of particularly knotty writing challenges. She offers criticism without judgment and suggestions that don’t force a person into any style but their own. She also has a great sense of humor.
As a result of working with Marilyn, I finished a book I was writing and began sending it out to agents. I also included more self-reflection in my writing in a way that I believe added more resonance and substance. Now, I write more and with less self-doubt. I think that’s huge. I also have so much more respect for other women, now that I’ve been with a group of women who shared their lives so courageously and wrote about their thoughts and experiences so honestly.
Lindsay Michie, PhD
Professor of History, Writer, Artist
Before working with Marilyn in her one-on-one Mentoring Program, I knew what I wanted to accomplish, but I needed help prioritizing my many goals so that I could move forward with clear direction. I also needed help finding my story, which Marilyn saw immediately.
Working with Marilyn has been one of the most uplifting and rewarding experiences I have had as a writer. I’ve gained new confidence and am accomplishing more as a writer than I ever did in two years as an MFA student. Marilyn brings deep patience and sincerity to her mentoring work.
As a result of working with Marilyn, I’ve developed more confidence as a writer. That confidence has moved into my personal life. I’m learning to see myself as powerful and brave, and this new vision of myself informs the narrative voice of my personal writing. I’ve learned to slow down and take time with crafting a personal essay in order to serve more fully the story I need to tell. I’ve learned I have a story to tell! I’ve learned to develop scene. Although I’ve always had a disciplined writing practice, I am writing with greater attention to craft and scene. I am writing more consistently and with greater clarity. I feel as if I am truly investing in my success as a writer.
Magin LaSov Gregg
Marilyn immediately addressed the issues that were keeping me from the page by helping me re-establish a regular writing practice and assigning me personalized mini-prompts that were both doable and effective in sidestepping my inner critic.
Marilyn truly listened to me, addressed my fears and gave me permission to write the things I was too afraid to write. She took the time to get to know me and to understand my personal history within the context of the work I was trying to do. Most importantly, she helped me to learn self-trust again as I wrote toward my own truths in a process she called “excavating.”
Always nudging me toward the story that wanted and needed to be told, Marilyn was the firm but gentle guide who empathized when I ran into obstacles, but didn’t let me off the hook. Instead, she encouraged me to make my writing goals attainable within the context of my particular circumstances. By emphasizing the positive aspects of my work and noticing my strengths, Marilyn helped me regain the courage to explore further, dig deeper and push through my writing difficulties. Her focus on women-centered writing and on the value of getting women’s voices out into a world that often silences or marginalizes women’s experiences is unique and significant.
Working with Marilyn has not only infused a greater clarity, purpose and confidence into my own writing process, but has instilled within me a greater awareness of the importance of getting my own voice, perspectives, and work out into the world.
Mother, Writer, Feminist Scholar
Highlands Ranch, Colorado
Before working with Marilyn, I had no idea I had a voice, no idea it was strong, and no idea it was worthy of being heard. I just thought I’m in this for Mom’s memoir; it’s not really about me anyway. Ha!
Marilyn’s writing exercises helped me to oh-so-gently uncover a voice I had worked hard to keep hidden out of fear that it was weak and had nothing worthy to say. With guidance and loving support, she helped me and the other women in class tease out, nurture, and gently hold our writing selves.
Marilyn created and established such a safe environment for our weekly teleclasses that we grew together as a class despite our undermining fears. She had us expose these fears for what they were: inner critics that, when listened to, kept us small and quiet. Naming our fears gave us power to grow past them and to write what had been waiting to be heard—our Truths.
Marilyn’s understanding of the way women’s voices have been silenced in our culture deeply resonated with me. I knew that I wanted to continue working with her on Mom’s memoir after Excavate Your Truth/Free Your Voice, so I signed up for her 1:1 memoir mentoring program.
This 1:1 program has been astounding. I am supported weekly with assignments, reflections, and check-ins. There is no hiding, no falling through cracks with Marilyn. She is in my corner cheering me on when I have a breakthrough and holding space for me when I struggle. She provides inspired and clear feedback and reflects back to me the depth and significance of this project when I waver. My mom is as in love with Marilyn as I am.
Because of Marilyn I am a writer now. I have joined a writers group, attend workshops for writers, and have been a guest writer on Marilyn’s blog. She has also supported me in submitting my work to literary journals. It is with great joy and gratitude that I declare: It is my intension to write and COMPLETE a bold and beautiful memoir that honors mothers and daughters everywhere.
Warm hugs to all, take courage, be strong, and step out.
As a female writer in academia, my creative writing voice before taking Marilyn’s Craft Your Truth class was, at times, stilted and masked with glossy magazine writing. Since taking the course, my voice feels more candid and emotionally lucid.
The writing prompts in the class helped me track episodes connected to having a port wine stain birthmark, which helped me paint a fuller picture of this painful emotional history. Some of the emotions were shame, embarrassment, and ugliness. Once I processed this timeline, my life began to change. I no longer wanted to live in a place of hiding my birthmark with makeup. I no longer wanted to “over-intellectualize” my experiences.
After twenty years of covering my birthmark, I no longer see this as a healthy and loving choice. With this newfound freedom, I am bringing a new spirit to my writing—a spirit of gratefulness for the diverse women who supported me during the class and for an instructor who was creative, compassionate, and energizing. I am so glad I am part of such a caring and smart community of women!
Jessica Brophy, PhD
Teacher and Poet
Update: Jessica has gone on to published 2 chapbooks of poetry–The Paper Girl and Firemark, a memoir in poems. A number of the poems in Firemark began in this course.
Since my daughter Adalyn was born, motherhood has been a theme through my writing but I’ve never felt it quite “legit.” You allowed me to not only accept that motherhood is a huge part of my voice, but also to embrace that fact. Thank you for that.
A few other things I jotted down at your workshop that left an impression on me: “Voice is the fingerprint of who you are,” “Stories have souls,” and “Tears are holy.” Loved these ideas/thoughts! I’ve also looked up Literary Mama, the journal you recommended, and have LOVED reading it. Maybe I will get brave enough to submit something one day. Thanks for getting my writing wheels turning again! I plan to keep gleaning writing joys from you in whatever ways I can!
Carly Eccles Sheaffer
Mother and Writer
I enjoyed my classmates’ writing as well. Marilyn did an excellent job of creating an environment for us to grow together as a community of writers as well as individually. We definitely have a safe space for sharing that will last long after the class. My newfound writing freedom has seeped into the rest of my life because I also now have the confidence to say the things I want to say. This class has definitely strengthened my voice in multiple ways.
Thank you, Marilyn, for pushing me to write about things that have been restless in me and for providing a comfortable setting for our group to share. You are an amazing and inspirational woman and teacher!
Artist, Photographer, & Collector of Ugandan Women’s Stories
Marilyn’s course Excavate Your Truth/Free Your Voice turned my desire to write into a real possibility. The fear of writing about my life, and the even greater fear of sharing my writing with others, was quickly washed away by the spirit of the class, the cohesion and mutual respect of the group, and by having the most gentle, genuine, and encouraging instructor.
I have a newfound respect for the importance of writing about our lives and am inspired to encourage others to write. I know now that it’s not about having something perfected to write down; it’s more about discovering the beauty in the raw, unperfected words that hit the page.
Nursing Student, Mother, Writer, Veteran
I was right on all counts. Marilyn’s class is a warm and stimulating environment, structured but comfortable. Marilyn’s knowledge of literature, women’s studies and the craft of writing creative nonfiction is vast, and makes the class richer. It is a safe space in which real truth can be unearthed and explored. Her style is nurturing and encouraging to all. She gives assignments which allow me to do as little or as much of them as I have time to accomplish, with no pressure.
But here’s the rub: I am writing more! I am getting out of my slump and seeing the world with new eyes again, and my writing skills are improving as well. I am ready to sign up for the next class!
Writer, Poet, Nurse, Mom
I have had many moments in reading her work in which I had to sit back, tears in my eyes, to take a breath and look away. She has the ability to hone in on a lyric moment in the midst of a scene and hold it in the palm of her hand until a domestic or out-of-the-way detail shines as a mottled and hard-won epiphany.
As a teacher, I know that she brings to her students a fire and a joy in their success that is both contagious and inspiring. She is the perfect combination of writer and teacher, a woman who sees the value in other women’s lives, who will fight and work with you to bring the truths from your experience onto the page.
Memoirist, Essayist, Teacher, Mother
Memoirist, Essayist, Teacher, Mother
Marilyn’s class was ¼ craft lessons, ¼ creation, ¼ catharsis, ¼ community, and ¼ intangible. Yes, I know that adds up to more than 1 whole, but the class is more than the sum of its parts. Marilyn’s honesty, straightforwardness, and empathy are breathtaking and gave me permission to write wholeheartedly into a topic, stripping away fear and any need to feel “appropriate.” I got back into the habit of writing and I gave myself permission to write when, how, and why I wanted. I stripped away the “shoulds” that had kept me paralyzed.
Getting to know my classmates’ writing gave me a new perspective on women’s stories—the telling of them as a collective act of courage and rebellion.
Librarian, Scholar, Mom